Saturday, May 16, 2015

Having no agenda can change your life

Agenda-less Walking Meditation

Kathleen and I participated in the MS Charity Bike Ride with some friends a few years ago and our friend Scott kept reminding the group that there was “no agenda.” He said this several times during the ride as we had to wait for someone to make it up a hill, or we (me) were impatient to leave a rest stop. He would notice a bit of impatience and just simply say, “no agenda.” Somehow it caught on and became the theme of the ride that day. It was a great reminder and helped me enjoy the ride so much more.   


Here are a few of my random thoughts having to do with a way to meditate without an agenda as you walk. I’d love to hear your thoughts as well!




Play

Kath and I went to the birthday party of our friend’s one year old grandchild the other day. When we arrived, their other grandchild who is three years old was standing with them fully engaged and bent over looking at an ant crawling along the driveway. When it comes to walking meditation maybe we can regain some of this joy by just going out without an agenda, fully engaging, and spending time with whatever captures our curiosity.


Walking and meditating without an agenda reminds me of play. When I walk and meditate without an agenda I am being childlike.

If you want to give it a try:

  • go out, walk, and be curious,
  • don’t be so serious
  • be open to spontaneous moments of joy
  • follow your intuition
  • look closely at a leaf, a snail, or the bark on a tree


…..just like a child would be inclined to do when he or she is at play. You’ll be amazed at what you discover about yourself and God!


For me, the ability to just play and not have an agenda seems to be lost. In my old age I now have to be intentional about playing. Children play naturally and somewhere along the way I lost it. How about you?




Enjoy the journey

One benefit of agendaless walking meditation for me is it helps me to “enjoy the journey.”


On our way to the birthday party mentioned above we were almost in two car accidents when two other drivers got impatient and drove into the intersections we happened to be crossing. Everybody is in such a rush!


Walking and meditating without an agenda helps me to enjoy the journey. I find this enjoyment spills over into my life and everyday activities when I practice it which is so helpful because I tend to be driven at times.


Drivenness is not a healthy state...


  • It keeps me from being present.
  • It's bad for my health,
  • It’s a symptom of my addictions.


Agenda-less walking (or driving, or riding, or sitting and meditating) helps me to connect with the Creator and that connection is everything!


“No agenda” creates a clearing, an openness - which for some - is the very definition of meditation.




An experience

Agendaless walking meditation opens the door for spiritual experience. Experience is not the goal of meditation, but it happens and I’m grateful for it when it does because it can be life changing. The other day I was on my regular walk - agendaless of course - and I felt led to stop and look out at the bay. Fortunately for me we live across the street from a beautiful park that is right on the end of an ocean inlet.


First, I noticed the water was calm and bristling with life.
Then I noticed a hummingbird - I have never seen a hummingbird in this park before
Then a bald bald eagle came swooping down as it was being harassed by two seagulls  - I didn’t know seagulls pestered eagles
Then a heron flew by
Then I noticed two geese sitting calmly on the edge of    the shore
After that I noticed the beautiful reflection of the the trees and the hills in the water
And finally there was the sound of bird song.


It was like the heavens opened up and nature came pouring out. All it took was for me set aside my agenda of having to get somewhere on my walk and to stop. I had never stopped at that spot before. After standing there for a few moments, simply being present and open to my surroundings, I felt refreshed and full of gratitude.


It was a moment of connection too. I have had this thought and feeling before after similar moments like this one. The question popped into my head; “where have I been?” and “”why did I ever leave?” It reminds me of what the prodigal son may have felt and thought when he returned home.

Monkey Brain

If you have practiced meditation, you know how hard it can be to simply be open and connect if your mind is racing. If you find your mind racing while you walk, consider using other meditation techniques. I find it helpful to consciously take 5 to 10 breaths, or practice centering prayer, or do my best to just be.


Stop!


When I notice something that catches my attention, or my intuition tells me to do so - I STOP, observe, and just be.


I have to remind myself that any meditation, or prayer technique is not about doing it perfectly, it's about connecting and abiding and resting in God. Overtime as I practice meditation I will just naturally and intuitively become more present, loving, and ready for action.

Space

As I write this paragraph, I am at a three day coaching clinic. One of the things that has been said over and over on this first day is how not having an agenda creates space. Just as it creates space in a coaching situation, I think it creates space for us to encounter the Creator. Creating space is for us, not God. It’s not a reward. The Creator doesn’t need the space - we do! God is present 24 hours a day. Meditation is all about being open and noticing. As I said above, if our brains are racing and we are driven by an agenda there is little room for us to notice the Creator and whatever He wants to show us.

More tips to walking without an agenda



  • I try to just be as I walk.
  • I want to simply be open and not even have a spiritual agenda.
  • I let go of any expectations of experience.
  • I let go of my demands - even of the Creator.
  • I make a conscious decision to just be present with no strings attached.
  • I don’t get attached to any thought or feeling as I walk.
  • Critical: slow down. I find it helpful to walk slower than I normally do.
  • Everything (thoughts, feelings, desires, experiences) are all welcome as I simply let them go.





Practical Concerns

Only walk as long as your health will allow you to do so. If you are going for a long walk, bring food, water, extra clothes or rain gear. I won’t go into my own embarrassing story, but don't do risky things like I did and got quite seriously injured as a result - a quarter mile off the trail, all - by myself I might add!

Going Deeper

The following video inspired me years ago. I practiced this meditation practice for about three years in a row through rain, sun, and snow in the same place in a park in Langley, BC. Walking Meditation with Thich Nhat Hanh: https://youtu.be/QdO1vZJgUu0

Monday, October 6, 2014

Precisely nothing-and yet everything - huh?


Richard Rohr has been doing a series on silent prayer for his daily email devotionals. As always his insights are incredibly profound. I hope it's okay to share this and not too personal (I have heard that your sacred word is not necessarily something to share, oh well)... I have been practicing centering prayer for years now and my sacred word is "Nothing." Whenever I see something that talks about this word in a spiritual context it gets my attention because honestly, for years I had no idea what it meant!

I know it's a very unusual word to be a sacred word. It "came to me" one day while I was practicing centering prayer, and like I said, at the time I had no idea what it meant. I felt so compelled to use it that I have stuck with it ever since - it's probably been 12 or so years! I've learnt all kinds of things about the meaning and significance of the word "nothing" in a spiritual context that I won't go into right now.

Rohr's devotional added another little piece to the puzzle today. He is talking about using our breath as a way to pray and his concluding paragraph says, 

"...When considered in this way, God is suddenly as available and accessible as the very thing we all do constantly—breathe. Exactly as some teachers of prayer say, “Stay with the breath, attend to your breath”—the same breath that was breathed into Adam’s nostrils by this Yahweh (Genesis 2:7); the very breath “spirit” that Jesus handed over with trust on the cross (John19:30) and then breathed on us as shalom, forgiveness, and the Holy Spirit all at once (John 20:21-23). And isn’t it wonderful that breath, wind, spirit, and air are precisely nothing—and yet everything?"

There is a life time of learning in this statement, just as I have found with my sacred word. 

For Rohr's devotional CLICK HERE

Thoughts, or comments?





Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Finding God in the Depths of Silence

Quote: "AS A GENERAL spiritual rule, you can trust this one: The ego gets what it wants with words. The soul finds what it needs in silence." Richard Rohr

From: Finding God in the Depths of Silence sojo.net. See: http://sojo.net/magazine/2013/03/finding-god-depths-silence

Monday, March 17, 2014

St. Patrick's Prayer

Christ behind me, and Christ in me,
Christ beneath me, and Christ above me,
Christ to my right, and Christ to my left,
Christ when I lie down, and Christ when I arise,
Christ in the heart of everyone who thinks of me,
Christ in the mind of everyone who speaks of me,
Christ in every eye that sees me, and
Christ in every ear that hears me.

I arise today through your mighty strength,
The invocation of the Trinity,
Through believe in the Threeness,
Through confession of the Oneness,
Of the Creator of creation.
Happy St. Patrick' Day!

Saturday, February 15, 2014

Open Eyes, Open Heart




When the eyes of your heart are open
you can't help but see
that the world
is dripping with 
God's love.

~ Rod ~ 




Friday, February 14, 2014

Creation is the First Bible



Amen and Amen. Richard Rohr "Creation is the First Bible" http://conta.cc/1lFkPKW